About Me
I graduated from Bangor University in 2022 with a Masters of Science in Counselling and a high First in Counselling Skills. Before this I was a Music Therapist for 14 years as part of the Clinical Psychology team at the Child Development Centre, Bangor, at the hospice Ty Gobaith, and worked for Gwynedd Council in many primary and secondary schools with disabilities and neurodiversity of all kinds.
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During my MSc in Counselling I worked at the NHS Primary Care Mental Health Counselling Service and the North Wales Women's Centre (NWWC) in Rhyl, where I still work. I trained with CRUSE in bereavement and grief counselling.
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As an integrative counsellor, I use elements of different approaches. I want to continually develop my knowledge and expertise to ensure I have the latest information on what works. This is some of what I have been doing:
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In 2021 I explored the causes of depression. One effective intervention is dancing, as shown in my MSc presentation video 'Dancing your way out of Depression: Interventions for Adult Depression'. Tango, for example, can improve depression by up to 35% because you have to be in the present in order to improvise and connect with another person - and not perhaps ruminating on the past.
In 2022, I explored understanding your past in terms of safety, self-worth and significance. The CAT course (Cognitive Analytical Therapy) and Waverley Model showed how our early life experiences influence the way we relate to other people and how we treat ourselves. Negative experiences may cause harmful messages to yourself.
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In 2023 I developed and started running an ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) Course because I have seen that it is not enough to understand your issues - you also need skills to process differently. The World Health Organisation now recommends ACT, not CBT, for trauma, stress and anxiety and ACT can improve these by up to 86%. I have seen this improvement many times in my clients. The NHS board in N Wales uses ACT with addictions as it is so effective. If you want to read more you could look up this article in Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/therapy-types/acceptance-and-commitment-therapy.
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In 2024 I completed training as a Supervising Counsellor with Dr Lisa De Rijk (UKCP accredited) and am running individual and group Supervision for Counsellors at a reduced price until fully qualified in 2025.
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If you have any more questions about the way I work, please do get in touch. As always, I stress that these sessions are yours and you are free to discuss whatever you need to.
Training/Publications
2024: Diploma in Supervising Counsellors (UKCP accredited) - in training
Safeguarding Children (Level 1, 2 and 3)
Anger Management Course (with PESI - 2 days)
Porn Addiction Course (Ross Hoskins)
2023: Creating and running my ACT (Acceptance and Commitment) Course for GISDA, Caernarfon and for MSc. in Counselling Students, Bangor University
2022: Completed my MSc in Counselling, Bangor University
RASASC North Wales Sexual Violence Awareness Training
Trauma and Abuse Training with North Wales Women's Centre, Rhyl (2 days)
ACAT: Two Day Introduction to Cognitive Analytic Therapy
NHS Learning Styles Training Workshop; mindfulness, music therapy, yoga, self-care workshops
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2021: NHS Trauma Training
6 week MINDFULNESS Course - Auctus Wellbeing Services, Llandudno
‘How to Work Remotely’ Therapy Training course - Bangor University MSc (12 hours - fully qualified)
5 month training with CRUSE including ‘Bereavement Support Training: Trauma, Awareness and Self–Care Webinar’; ‘Working remotely on Zoom/telephone’; ‘Working with Suicide’
‘Practice beyond the Pandemic - Remote and in-person - considering a blended approach to delivering therapy’ – British Association for Counsellors and Psychotherapists
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2020: Emotional Resilience Training Workshop by Mary Bannon
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2004-2018: NHS Music Therapist and for Ty Gobaith Hospice
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PUBLICATIONS:
Wimpory, Dawn & Gwilym, Elise (2019). Musical Interaction Therapy (MIT) for Children with Autistic Spectrum Conditions (ASC’s): Underlying Rationale, Clinical Practice and Research Evidence. In Dunn H., Coombes E., Maclean E., Mottram H., and Nugent J., (Eds.) in Music Therapy and Autism Across the Lifespan. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
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Masters presentation 2022 'Dancing your way out of Depression: Interventions for Adult Depression' on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4lBJPmjomQ&t=3s
My Youtube channel, Elise Gwilym
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